You would not believe how I often I get asked what to wear on a first date with a shifter!  As if the rules of dressing for dates aren’t hard enough to maneuver, people seem to get extra freaked about this scenario. I get it, the right outfit can make you feel sexy and confident. And a faux pas could lead to awkwardness on an otherwise amazing date. If you’re going a first date the last thing you need is to worry about wearing “the wrong” thing. Fortunately, I have designed a five step system to create the perfect first date outfit for whomever you are meeting.

  1. Do your research. Not all shifters are the same – but you wouldn’t wear your best fur jacket with your real leather pants on a date with a vegan, would you? You wouldn’t take a kosher jew to a pork and oyster buffet? Take this as an opportunity to learn more about their values and their cultures to determine if you’re a good love match.
  2. Wear comfortable shoes. Nothing ruins a date like hobbling around with painful feet. Leave yourself open to adventure by sporting footwear that can go the distance.
  3. Show off your best features. Shiny hair? Glowing skin? A great décolletage. You’ll feel more confident and sexy if you think you look your best – regardless of what species you are meeting.
  4. Shifters are more sensitive to smells than people – avoid olfactory offense by going easy on the perfume (this actually good advice for dates with humans too…)
  5. Set yourself up to have fun. Yes, first dates are nerve wracking, but the point is to have a good time. If you’re not the right temperature, if your clothes are too tight or awkwardly fitted, you won’t be able to sit back, relax and get to know a new mate.

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